Monday, May 20, 2013

Now I know all of us in public relations have tried for our entire careers to explain what it is we do. And if you are like me, you’ve always been sure your parents really have no clue, “but as long as you’re happy, we’re happy.” Right?

We were in Minneapolis for a family wedding.  My 85-year-old cousin asked my mom “just exactly what does Abbie do for a living.”  And this is how my mom explained it:

Let’s assume you are a lettuce farmer. (The salad had just been set so it was the best she could do.) And you want everyone to know about your crops; well, you hire someone like Abbie to tell the newspaper and television reporters how great your lettuce is.  But maybe you have a bad crop one year, but thanks to the work that Abbie does, she’s able to tell the reporters about that and also tell them some of the other great things you are doing at the farm..

He goes on to ask, “how does she do that?”

She makes it a point to know all the reporters and editors at the different newspapers and television stations.  You know she’s quite the busy-body so this is perfect for her. (yeah, I know, my mom has that part dialed in J)

So then he asks my mom if “Abbie does the Twitter thing.”  And to that she says:

Yes, she does all that social media stuff. She uses the Facebook and the Twitter thing all the time (I’m sure there was a big emphasis on ALL and she probably rolled her eyes a bit as well.)  She even teaches other people how to use it.

Not bad, right?  So after 25+ years in business, I guess my parents really do know what I do.



  1. Stephanie Lough (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    I love the Facebook and the Twitter! Even if that is all anyone understands about the job in the public relations.

  2. Alison Bailin (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    This is far better than what my mom always says – Alison has a job where I get to go to all sorts of fun things for free. Gee mom, thanks!

  3. Gini Dietrich (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    Hilarious! Especially the rolling of the eyes and the busy body parts.

  4. Stephanie Lough (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    I think my mom would say I do something “that requires trendy outfits and needs to be modern all the time.” I’m okay with that thought.

  5. Dana Hughens (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    I love this. Now I see where you get the ability to think on your feet. It might be in HMA’s best interest to put Mrs. Fink on the payroll as a spokesperson and official ambassador.

    The photo is adorable. This just might be my favorite blog post ever.

    • Abbie S. Fink (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

      Thanks Dana — Barbara’s got it dialed in for sure.

  6. Charlotte (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    I love the “the” Facebook and “the” Twitter. LOL!
    Great job, Abbie’s Mom. Can she teach this to the rest of our parents?

  7. Bob Reed (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    My mom still has no clue…

  8. Barbara Maack (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    That’s truly impressive, Abbie! Sounds like your mom would be great in the biz, too. She made it so easy to relate. Now, I have to go have a salad. I’ll be thinking of you and sending positive vibes for your crops.

  9. Mike Shaldjian (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    Love that!
    My mom still doesn’t quite understand what I do. She tells everyone I watch TV for a living.
    Gotta love moms!

  10. Leslie Sonnenkar (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    That is FAR better than my mom would do! Every time I get a new client she asks, “so, what are you going to do for them?” LOL, it makes me crazy!

  11. Ken Jacobs (Reply) on Wednesday 14, 2011

    Hysterical post. Now I want to ask my mom to explain what I do for a living. Or maybe not!

  12. Brittany Richardson (Reply) on Thursday 15, 2011

    My mom always calls us HMA Publications.

  13. Sandra (Reply) on Friday 16, 2011

    Love my mom she is the best. So are you getting into produce now?

  14. Nicole Rose (Reply) on Friday 16, 2011

    Abbie I absolutely love this post. After 20 years in the business my family still cannot come close to articulating what I do. In fact what I find ironic is that my family tells everyone I am in PR…no mention of branding whatsoever…which is what I primarily focus on. But like any other marketing buzz word, people tend to use them interchangeably. So, I guess I should be happy they at least know what industry I work in. That’s a start.

  15. Deb Dobson (Reply) on Wednesday 13, 2012

    Abbie, what a great post. For years I was a business consultant and would try to explain to my mom what I did and she would always say “as long as you’re happy.” When I was in IT, she was a bit more happy as she could say “Deb is in IT.” Now that I’m marketing/social media…well, she rolls her eyes and we’re back to the original roll of the eyes. Having a sister who is a nurse doesn’t help things LOL.


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